Thursday, October 16, 2014

Forever Is a Beautiful Word


I just stuck a forever stamp on an envelope and carried it out to the mailbox. I’m not sure the stamp will be good forever. But I believe in forever.

I believe that the real Jennifer is not my body that will die. The real me is inside that body and will live forever. That is the reason nothing on this earth quite satisfies my soul. God made me for eternity. He made me forever.


“You will show me the path of life; In Your presence is fullness of joy; At Your right hand are pleasures forevermore.” Psalm 16:11 NKJV



Friday, October 10, 2014

The Power of [Or] in the Search for Truth


As I mentioned in my last post, my alma mater has embarked on an ad campaign about “The Power of [And].” However, I have found the little word or gets me much further in my search for truth.

In our pluralistic culture, we are nervous about saying one thing is right and another is wrong. Be tolerant. Keep an open mind. Relativism is good. Absolutism is bad.

But in The Closing of the American Mind, Allan Bloom suggested relativism itself closed our minds. People always knew different cultures had different opinions about good and bad. The historian Herodotus considered this a challenge to study nations and their cultures to learn what was good and bad in each. Relativists say we must not judge. We must respect them all.

That leads to a problem. If all cultures are equally good, why should I invest time and energy to study all of them? I can learn about a couple. Enjoy their music. Eat their food. And go on with life. My life is fine the way it is.

But if absolute truth exists, if there is an ultimate good, it is worth searching for it. I will sell all I have for that priceless pearl. Education becomes a quest. My mind is open because I want to know.

What direction do we want to take? We can approach our studies with both/and logic. Diverse cultures are equally good. Let’s have an international festival and then go on our merry way.

Otherwise, we can take the either/or approach. Deep understanding of cultures reveals conflicting value systems. One or the other is right. They cannot both be. Am I courageous enough to dig this deep? Will I admit that my culture isn’t always right? Will I change the way I live when I find a better way? Am I brave enough to state graciously when an aspect of my culture is better? This is the only way to grow in truth.

I choose “The Power of [Or].”



Sunday, October 5, 2014

The Power of [Or]


My alma mater, UW Eau Claire, began an ad campaign last spring. It’s all about their new branding, “The Power of [And].” There is some truth in the ads. Students at UWEC aren’t pigeonholed into one discipline. They can be a “business woman and bicyclist” or “entrepreneur and entertainer.” Reaching beyond our primary field, putting an and in our lives, takes us out of our comfort zone and stretches us as human beings. But we do our students and community a disservice if we forget “The Power of [Or].”

As a private music teacher, I watch my students reach the maturing stage of or. When they are young, they can do this and that and the other thing. In middle school and high school, they must make choices. Their time is limited. Will they do another sport or practice violin? Will they be in the school play or join the youth symphony? Will they pursue dance or choir or forensics?

We mature as we face the or decisions in our lives. These decisions force us to define our purpose and refine our goals. We confront tough questions. What is most valuable? What matters in life?

Every or question has an element of tension, maybe even conflict. It is in that tension where we grow. Do I have the courage to live in the or?