Friday, January 27, 2017

The Power of Our Words


I stood at the door of the second-grade classroom and called my next piano student. I called again. Where was she in that mass of students?

Soon I saw a girl hurrying toward me, not the student I needed, just one who wanted to say hi. She threw her arms around me and said, “You look pretty today.”

Little did she know that I had barely finished cleaning the bathroom on time to get to work. I had exchanged my black knit pants for a skirt, put in earrings, and rushed out the door. No, none of this mattered to the child who saw me as pretty and made my day.

May I be as wise with my words as she is.



Sunday, January 22, 2017

The Purpose of a Dog and the Purpose of Me


My knowledge of movies and pop culture is laughable due to a bad habit of burying myself in music that is three hundred years old. My students occasionally try to pull me back into the twenty-first century, like this week when they told me about the soon-to-be-released movie, A Dog’s Purpose.

I asked one student, “What is the purpose of a dog?” and I was pleased with her articulate answer, but then I followed up with, “What do you think our purpose is?”

“That’s a tough question,” she replied.

How do I respond to that? Is there anything more important than knowing our purpose in life? Vince Vitale put it well when he compared life to an athletic competition: “Imagine being thrown into a game without knowing when it started, when it will finish, what the objective of the game is, or what the rules are.”

But how could I approach this topic without getting religious? Am I here by accident with no purpose at all? Is there a God who created me? If so, who is He, and why did He make me?

None of these questions fit the purpose of a violin lesson so I steered the conversation back to music theory and intonation, but the interchange stuck with me.

These topics might not be appropriate for casual conversation with a violin student, but they are always appropriate within my friendships. If I were thrown into a basketball game with no idea of the rules or what to do with the ball, I would expect my friends to tell me those important details. Shouldn’t we be just as open with each other when searching for the right direction of our lives?