Sunday, August 5, 2012

Crossing the Generational Divide


“Build Your Attendance: Children love church…when there’s something for them!” A bright yellow box highlighted this statement on an advertisement for Children’s Worship Bulletins. The bulletins look great. I’d consider purchasing them if our church were larger. But I doubt this is the secret to increasing attendance.

My friends and I tried a quick fix in church once. Our young-professionals Sunday School class had recently combined with the college-age singles. Well, combined might not be the right word. We were like oil and water.

So we smart professionals decided to show up early and stager ourselves throughout the room – checkerboard seating. We’d force the college kids to sit by us. Did it work? No, the college students moved chairs to sit by their friends.

Then one of my friends suggested a different approach, a radical approach. Every Sunday we’d try to talk with someone with whom we usually did not talk. We didn’t need a change in church structure to do this. We didn’t need to change the classroom setup. We needed to quit blaming the college kids for being clickish and change our own behavior.

Just as we wanted to integrate our Sunday School class, Family Driven Faith promotes a family-integrated church model. It’s a great idea, but many of us can’t change our church’s entire structure. We can let God change our hearts. What can we do today to cross the generational barriers in worship? It starts with us.

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